Who's turn is it to make dinner?

Through some clever wording and trickery that men seem to able to employ in this situation, J managed to talk me into making dinner even though it was his turn to cook.

It led me to wonder. Are men born with this ability or is there a secret class that boys attend prior to claiming a partner? One that involves how to do/not do, talk their way around or mess things up enough that it just becomes easier to do it ourselves?