Teen spirit?

My oldest attended basketball tonight. He is small compared to most of the team members (most of them being 3-4 years older), he is fast, CAN play defence but o.m.g he has a lot to learn. He just wants to play the game and gets frustrated standing in line to wait to shoot the hoop. He walked off a few times as the group discussed who was starting etc.

I personally used to be involved mainly in individual sports myself like, teakwon-do, tai-chi, swimming, ballet, aerobics. Played some soccer and volleyball but seems to work better for me to be individual. Maybe the apple didn't fall so far from the tree.....