research care homes, it is overwhelming, saw one yesterday that I don't think would be right for Mum. Ate Buster here while I was looking online so I did not feel guilty about eating him. So tired, after a long day,  then the carer called the doctor out to Dad to look at where he is getting sore, so a long night too. And then I did not sleep well either. now to visit Dad and then to mum in hospital again. Back to work next week so don't know how I will manage that one.