To move forward, we have to turn our backs on some

Dealin With backstabbers
Theres one thing i've learned
They are only powerful
when you're back is turned....

Massive ty to all those who commented on my 2yr blip :D it made me smile. i've got a number of back blips to catch up on.. which hopefully will get done at some point..

Got so much todo and so much going on mentally.. we no longer have my stepson living with us.. the lies, the deciet, the two faceness that has gone on is quite unbelievable.. infact its the kind of story line you'd expect in our great british soaps (probably where he got the idea from)

To cut along story short, he decided to run away again on friday.. left around midday after asking to go for a walk to our local park.. come 3.. i was aware all wasn't what it seemed.. but didn't bother to go search his room.. knowing teens will be teens i assumed he'd appear at tea time in search of food.. (the trust he'd appear, needs to be remembered in this story) dh came home at just gone 6.. i asked if dss had gone to meet him.. nope.. so dh went and looked in his bedroom.. all tidy, took a good 15 mins to find a letter saying he had gone ....where too, how etc at this point we had no idea.... knowing he had history of self harm we just wanted to know he was safe.. after talking to some 'friends' of his here turns out had been calling his mother for weeks on end (going against what the drs and mental counsellors have said) why did we bother? ... anyway about 3 hours after that and dh had travelled the 50 min journey to make sure he hadn't tried to walk back and to be found in a ditch somewhere... we were informed by the police that dss was safe and could dh return home before they told him where dss was... turns out he was back to the house where the so called abusive mother and her bf lives.. Now who in their right mind would want to go back to that huh... during the search to know he was safe a number of stories have come about what this lad has said about my family here.. which are all utter bollocks. He has had a go at both my older girls via fb since being home.. both of which have now no contact with him.. infact none of us have or will have.. He's making out he was kept prisoner here, and had no trust or friends here... im sure being given a smartphone, unlimited dvds, internet (without social access as suggested by the drs) allowed to stay out at 'friends ' houses etc etc really means he has no trust.

He is a compulsive liar, who'll end up going nowhere and you know what thats fine.. Whats even more annoying is if he had just said one of the hundred times that he wanted to go back to weymouth when he was asked then we would have taken him there and then.. none of this drama,, none of this wasting police time twice! and no doubt there was no need for the dr's or mental health team to ever get involved in his sick twisted drama.. which is what it was..

Sorry to have babbled, just wanted to make a record but the coming weeks we shall be changing the house around again so the two younger ones have thier own bedrooms and we finally get the biggest bedroom in the house.. The teens are perfectly happy in the downstairs bedroom for now.

So onwards and upwards.. no love lost and certainly no longer going to get me down..

:)