Never Just The One Thing

The roof of my mother's house decided it wouldn't work any more and have ended up with part of a ceiling having to be replaced.  This is happening today.

Is like being in a grief/anger sandwich at the moment but hopefully that will improve, J is arriving this afternoon which is such a welcome relief.  Is difficult staying here waiting for the funeral which will be a week today.  Just want to be at home but cant face the 1500 miles it would take to drive home, back here and then home again.