Wedding gift

Out to buy wedding gift to son A and coming daughter M today. Have received a list of what they want and where to buy it. Same list was in the shop where we could see what other guests already had bought and what was left for us to buy. Very organized but no room for us to be creative. Didn't do it that way in the old days when we got married. Didn't get that lot of gifts either. We were more than happy though.