Roger

When in doubt (i.e. no photo taken), get a picture of the cat. Thank goodness he has his uses.... 

The Bursar at work today went all out with his soft, caring skills... He asked me how I was, which was bad timing as I'd just had a message to say the youngest had been biting, kicking and slapping other  children, so that coupled with the house stress is getting a bit annoying. The Bursars response to my woes was 'it sucks to be you'. I'm going to remember that one and roll it back out to him when he is having a low... 

Youngest has finally gone to sleep after about an hour and a half of protests.  He's not a happy boy at the moment, will go up soon for some cuddles with him (he's had quite a few this evening).