Had a really lovely day with j. He drove to mk , but was massively delayed due to an accident on the M1. We went out for a delicious lunch at the black horse and then just came home and lit the woodburner. So lovely to chat withhim though. He is really enjoying his job, doing more cooking so he can eat more healthily, exercising , andstarted to think about doing something called bumble which is apparently like tinder but the woman had to make the first move. He thinks it feels less sleazy that way. I know I'm biased but he's such a kind and thoughtful man and lovely to spend time with. Think he has got over T too though he still sees her. He's just left so looking forward to a cosy evening with the tv and wood burner- first time this winter