You lower yours and grant him one last choice

Tooli is loving camp life. 

The children change over week on week and every week brings new challenges, but she is rising to them all. 

I was so proud of her, when she told me she had a little girl who had a rather farty bum problem.  They had all been sitting in a circle -stories before bed, the little girl rose, and let rip with a big rip roaring fart.... and Tooli put her had over her mouth in shock and squealed, "oh my did you hear me fart" 

Tooli taking ownership of a fart which wasn't even hers.  I am beside myself with pride 

:-)