Think Different

Most of the times people would display opposition to your ideas, because of their insecurities and they want to get the attention of a third person who is in that discussion. Which actually increases dislike between you two. But if you show that you do appreciate them for what they are and that you do not 'extinguish fire with fire'.

you will see in the end that they will gradually learn to like you and improve the relationships.
Kill the ego in you to taste the real wonderful life with friendship and love.