Bestie

Serious Back Blip - documenting the past. 3.9.21

My Best friend Nicky and her boys - Tom, Harry and Jack.

I have known Nicky since 6th Form. I was her Bridesmaid and her Birth Partner to her youngest. She was my birth partner for a Home Birth. I was with her at the Solicitor when she filed for Divorce and we spent every Christmas Eve and childrens birthdays together. This picture is actually on Sams Birthday.

Nicky had some Mental Health Issues and was diagnosed Bi-Polar. 

During this visit, the boys all played with the electric fencing around the chicken run behind them. Something that always caused alot of amusement. It wasn't dangerous and just gave a very small shock but the next day 2 of her boys had serious headaches and Nicky blamed me. She wanted me to take ownership of their headaches. Being the friend I was I did to help her feel better. But she didn't speak to me again after that.

I really, really missed her.