Make a wish

We are back in Box again for my sister- in -law's birthday bash. Her partner Jock invited loads of friends from the village and cooked an amazing paella plus a huge BBQ. Enough booze to sink a ship and I have a feeling it will continue into the early hours. Lorraine's(sis in law) friend Stuart made her this delicious cake. Here she is taking a big breath ready to blow out that candle.
I just want a cuppa tea - Is that being a party pooper?