Tea and cake before bed :)

Edit: after we had drunk our tea a daddy long legs bobbed towards our faces and then while trying to flap it out of the windows noticed 2 big spiders and a small one. I screamed my head off and nearly wet myself and Mike was shouting stop screaming you big baby! The daddy long legs was forgotten and mike got rid of the 2 big ones for me. Didn't even care about the daddy long legs then! What am I going to do??? I need hypnosis or something because at the moment I am seriously considering keeping the windows shut all summer :( haven had a spider in the house for 3 years due to living in a flat and I am very scared!