What would you rather Bee or a wasp

Tried to clic this bee but it kept flying back and forth.....managed this but disappointed I couldn't get closer for a sharper image.
This flower is in my Daughters back garden.....I looked after Alexia this morning whilst Helen gad a meeting at school, Helen is a senior school teacher so she has broken up for the holidays, but the girls haven't yet.....Lexi and I walked back from School then we sat under the umbrella in the back garden.....so hot....love it though