In a church wedding

Hey baby, just you and me, calm down and think about it once again seriously, shall we? can we? must we?

The answer should be very clear and absolutely from the hearts.

There is a nice Chinese saying: Zhi Zi Zhi Shou, Yu Zi Xie Lao.
Take my hand, take my life too.

OR

Don't have to be the followers if any is not ready. It's not a show, it's not a social formula, it's not for anyone else, it's for ourselves having a home, to belong.