I spoke at my grandma's funeral today.
I cried. But I think it was a great opportunity to talk about her as she is the last of a generation of adults that shaped my life by being so cool, elegent and influential in my life.
Grandma was a quiet lady. She had great style. She told you what was what. When I first got my nose ring she was the only one who said anything about it. She thought they looked asymetrical. She handed me some money when she left that day and told me to get the other side done. I did that the next week. She was way ahead of her time.

The tea was from the wake afterwards. I think we forget how important beautiful china is.