Make me look less wrinkled

What?
I did set the camera to skin softening and after many shots we chose this one. When I take a picture of a person they inevitably say "I don't look like that".
It is very hard to see ourselves as others do, it's not like we walk around looking at ourselves in a mirror all day. Well, actually she does while she teaches her 14 exercise classes a week.

as good old Willie Nelson sings:

This Face is all I have, worn and lived in
And lines below my eyes are like old friends
And this old hearts' been beaten up
And my ragged soul has had things rough
And this face is all I have, worn and lived in