lesson of life

This is Mahadev brother of girija, he works in the garden,he feels he is ugly and people laugh at him, his wife ran away from him too, .He says According to them there is something wrong with him. I sat down with him n told him Mahadev it is very important that, he liked who he was, and his family liked who he was. His friends liked who he was. Why was he judging himself based on the people that didn't like him rather than the ones who did? That was his mistake. Understanding this dynamic led him to his first, and in some ways ways most important, life lesson I could see life back in his eyes!!!