Potential girlfriend?

I have a Chusan palm at home, which has been flowering for the last 4-5 years, so I now know it is male.  So are all the Chusan palms owned by local friends, so no chance of any seed. I was at the centre of the Open University universe today and spotted this on the way from the car park.  This one is a female, but probably a bit too far away for any meaningful relationship or seeds.
Another day of meetings, but face-to-face with lunch and tea breaks.  So much nicer than Teams.