Unexpected visitor

My sister invited my school friend yesterday at home around 9pm. This was impromptu and without any prior info to me. Upon hearing him speak, I found out :

- My sister had been contacting him every time my father did abuse and he didn’t appreciate her contacting him and told me that I should take the responsibility.
- My sister is 32 years old and perhaps her aspirations are of marriage.
- I was doing a low paying job and should be sad that in the 1.5 years of working I don’t own a BMW.
- The dance interest that I have developed are too old of hobbies for a 26 year old.

I found all of the things he said to be very personal. I thought out of all of the things he said, I should be in greater contact with my sister. I will improve on this aspect this year.

My sister and I did not speak for a majority of the portion of next day. We came back to normalcy during our dinner time. When she took me out to have sushi at a new Japanese place. We thought that the sushi was very nice, wasabi was fake, and the teriyaki chicken was not so great.