the beauty of strelitzia

today i felt like the biggest bitch :-( my feelings have been overly harsh and today when i was asked advice on why she behaves the way she does, i realised that she really does have a lot of problems and is going to get into shit because of it. it's not very often that you are warned that things are going to potentially hit the fan for someone else and that you better be ready for them to need your support :-/ oh dear...