Vibernum carlessii

We've just been on a 20 miles drive, which wasn't the most harmonious, and I've ended up blipping a flower in my own front garden! We are 8 days and still counting into this retirement lark and today we both had our own separate MT (Me Time) but there was a certain tension in the air as my MT was certainly better than his. So I suggest a drive into the glorious countryside - wrong move! Every tractor, cyclist, horse seemed to be wherever we were and whereas I can tolerate other road users it seems that not everyone else can. I only suggested stopping the car once to get a blip and won't do that again in a hurry!
This is a steep learning curve, believe me!