Fathers day

Probably could have been better for Andre.

First off i will quickly apologize for my absence over the past few days. Marley was at home sick Wednesday and Thursday.
Friday i needed a bit of a break and yesterday we got news that our land lord is thinking of selling our flat as he wants to move on from being landlord. Hes really easy going so hes giving until the end of next year as he wont sell it immediately and he doesn't want to kick us out with 3 children and wouldn't make us leave during winter either so we have time to look for somewhere else.
Its just such a shame i really love living where we are and i knew deep down that sooner rather than later we'd have to find somewhere anyways as Harper gets older were going to need more room but its just this location and only the flat being refurbished a couple years back that i love it so much.

Back to today- Andre let me sleep in as i had a bad night with Harper, when i got up he said that while he was busy with Harper that kanye had scoffed down -pretty quickly- 2 oranges WITH skins on as kanye cant peel them.

Not long after i got up kanye started making a noise- Andre who was sitting next to him said 'ahh hes vomiting' . Yep, that orange came straight back up and partly on Andre, i managed to get a towel there quick enough that Andre wasn't covered. He took him to the shower only to discover that the orange had made quite a presence at kanyes other end and was everywhere.

Once cleaned up kanye came right and watched tv while Andre saw to Harper who had no nappy on and had managed to wee on Andre a bit so he dealt to that.

After all of this i made him a coffee and told him to sit while i hung the washing out- unfortunately while out there kanye got into the guinea pig hay and stood in hedgehog poo- barefoot, so Andre put him back in the shower.

I know what your thinking its a bit much hey? At this point we were like this cant possibly get any worse.
It sort of did but nothing involving poo.

We sat kanye in his chair and gave him the ipad while we took a break- during this time i had been cleaning the house getting everything done. As we sat in tiredness at only 1130 we heard a mutter- then some words we weren't expecting to hear- kanye had managed to go into you tube and find a video on sex!!! As in people talking about the explanation of it!! We jumped up and took it of him and immediately moved you tube from the tab so HE CAN NEVER CLICK ON IT AGAIN.

Other times kanyes been on YouTube he'll be watching a video but then it has suggestions down the side of other videos. I think that's how he found it. Ugh. lets just say i'm pleased it wasn't Marley who's curious mind would have been filled with questions we're not ready to answer.

Kanye was a bit full on today- we call these days his autistic days. Hes really difficult, not quite there, into everything and doing things he wouldn't usually do. Days like this its tiring as we have to watch him constantly, in a flash he'll climb up onto something or try to run away. Days like this the autism side of him shines through really strongly, im not quite sure why. Days like this he flaps his hands a lot, just walking around doing it or something else repeatedly- its really hard to explain how he is unless you can see it or know someone like it.

We had my in laws for dinner tonight, we were going to take my father in law out for lunch yesterday but the landlords news threw us and we got completely sidetracked so we had dinner tonight. I made lamb tagine and my mother in law made a yummy orange-coconut cake for dessert. Marley was really sweet including his grandparents in on our tradition of talking about our day and how we felt- a time where i we sit as a family while eating to talk and be a safe zone/time for them to tell us anything where they have our undivided attention, i especially want to carry this on as they get older. The boys we really well behaved and it was a lovely dinner.

I fell off the healthy eating wagon again and i was doing amazingly well, the worst thing i'd had was a milo. I allow my self 10% a week of what i deem unhealthy so i gave milo 2% but yesterday... ugh the stress of this flat business was just too much and i caved. So i will start again and maybe make up something that is really healthy but is what i like, so a cake like that we had tonight- eggs, orange, coconut, butter, flour at least then i'm getting what i feel i crave when i'm stressed but its still alright to eat.

Isn't this pic of Harper sweet? We were all having a lemonade ice block as a treat and he tried mine then decided he really liked it so walked around sucking on it until it was all gone. His first ice block - well quarter of an ice block.

So a few full on days for us but hey we got through it with thanks to coffee!