We had a huge fight today, me and Maxi. His explanation for it is that we are together too much. I mean, he said "i even spent time in your belly and as a baby you were always with me. That is why we fight so much!"

My suggestion for a solution is simple. To understand where on the "ladder" we are at the moment. See it like steps on the ladder. The two down is GREEN, a good zone to be in. The other two above is YELLOW, that is a warning zone. The next steps over that is RED ZONE and NOT a good place to be in and fight.

We was BOTH in the red zone today.

I took responsibility as a grown up and told him I should by now in the age of 38 know how to stay in the green zone if Maxi jump up in the red. I also explained i am only a human but i will work on staying in the green area. He will too, he said.

So, it was nice hugging him today. We sat there for quite a while just feeling the energy.

The photo is crap coz i havent take it. Tommy didn't do what I told him to..haha! (JOKING of course).